Stop Self Sabotage
How to Permanently Stop Self SabotageHow to Permanently Stop Self Sabotage By Nick Arrizza, M.D. Does it feel like your mind and life have been hijacked by a self destructive software program buried deep in your subconscious mind that has wrestled control away from you? Well if you would like to stop that program in its tracks and reclaim control over your rightful property then this is a place to start. Self sabotage consists of series of negative thoughts and behaviours that are aimed against the self. Now some might passively assume that this is part of the normal human condition but I would like to challenge that notion here and now. You see, if it was part of the human condition that effectively means that it's part of you, much like your hand or your foot. That implies that in order to get rid of it you would have to get rid of "part of yourself". Somewhere deep inside you however you "know" that the self sabotaging behaviour is not part of you for two simple reasons a) you don't want it to be inside you at all and b) you have no control over it (because if you did you would never be reading this article). That of course means that it does not originate from you rather it only lives "inside" you and has hijacked your mind and life away from you. How is this possible, you ask? Well somewhere in your life you experienced some negative event(s) that hypnotically trained you into believing that you were a bad, unworthy, undeserving and punishable person. If you stop here for a moment and reflect on some of the memories of these events I think you will immediately know what I'm talking about. Well those negative memories apparently define who and what you are, that is if you accept that. Most people do without question because those memories "live" inside them and therefore, as they believe, "make up" who they are. Well, that's like a computer "believing" that it is the software that is installed on its hard drive. You and I know however that the software is only "information" that directs the computer how to function. What's more that software can be uninstalled and/or replaced by other software that does not change the inherent nature of the computer itself, only how it functions or "behaves". Well would it surprise you if I said that those negative memories are also "information", much like a program, that directs you how to think, feel and behave? The trap however is in the unspoken and unchallenged belief that this "program" represents who and what you are. In fact it doesn't. Now for some of you that may feel empowering especially if the program is telling you that you are bad, unworthy, undeserving and punishable. Empowering because it means that you can change it or get rid of it entirely. There is a coaching process that can effectively uninstall the program you call your Life History Program from your unconscious mind permanently. By doing so an interesting thing happens; you begin to become more fully aware of who and what you really are. Deep in your Heart you already know that you are a being who is very powerful who wishes to express themselves fully and freely. If any of this resonates with you and you would like to learn more about how to stop this self sabotaging program from running away with your life kindly visit the web site below where you can also request a free introductory telephone consultation to get you started. Nick Arrizza MD, a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor is an International Life, Executive, Organizational Tele-Coach, Author of Esteem For The Self: Restoring the Divine Holographic Energy Field With The Mind Resonance ProcessŪ (MRP) and the developer of the powerful Mind Resonance ProcessŪ (MRP). A Free 1 Hour Introductory MRP Telephone Consultation is available upon request. (You will be asked to cover your own long distance telephone charges) Email: drnick@telecoaching4u.com Web Site: http://telecoaching4u.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Nick_Arrizza,_M.D. http://EzineArticles.com/?How-to-Permanently-Stop-Self-Sabotage&id=3566656
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